Fitting In
You may think fitting in is a lot of work. Well to be completly honest with you, it's not. People like popular girls or boys just want to hide the secret of how their popular. The reason why their popular is probably wrong. Theres two kinds of popular girls. The nice one and the mean one. The nice one, you definately want at your school. Kind, sweet, gentle. Theres also the mean kind which is so mean it feals like a threaten when she hates on somebody she thinks shes getting popular when shes making people feel bad but you know you can't control them. In fact no one can except her. Fitting in is simple. You just got to be nice to one another and there going to start liking you because well your nice. Nobody wants a mean snotty girl or boy at their school. You do have to remember though its not about being popular. Its about being nice to one another because if someones mean, than he or she will most likely persuade the person he or she is picking on to pick on someone else. How that works is that when somebody feels bad, like somebody or an animal just died or someone got bullied, and their mean to you. Well thats because they want you to feel the same pain. Always stick with your friends. Now I'm not telling you to agree with them even though you think its a bad idea but you really want to fit in with them. Give them your ideas also. Maybe they'll like your idea. Somebody can't keep the spotlight forever. They have to share it and how you do share it is easy. Just be nice to people and you'll persuade them to be nice because then they'll be in a happy mood. Then they get some of the spotlight. Don't worry though it doesn't go away unless your mean to someone. If someone keeps being mean to someone than they're spotlight is fading and getting dimmer. If they're nice to someone then there sptlight gets brighter and you shine bright like the sun! Thats how I look at it. Now nobody's perfect. Not me, not you, not you're favorite celebrity, or sports person. People learn and gets progressivley better and you learn from your mistakes but it doesn't make someone perfect. I mean even if you do learn from your mistakes, that same mistake could happen but it doesn't mean your really bad at something. It means that your learning from your mistakes and your going to get better because your working hard and your reaching your goal. Thats all someone could ever ask for. Even if someone doesn't do something right it just means that they did their best and someday if they want to they'll end up like a pro! Everyone is good and bad at something. No one can be perfect. All I do know is that the one way to be on track to perfect is to just be YOU!